With the Spring semester right around the corner, I thought Id share some tips on how to be a successful student and parent at the same time. Being a college student and parent is truly a balancing act. Like me, I'm sure many of you are often faced with the choice between being attentive to your child or completing your assignments. [I guess this is why you should complete your degree before having a baby. But so what, lets turn lemons into lemonade] So, here are my top 5 tips on how to study with a toddler!
1. Creative Play
Watching TV is nice but honestly folks there are many better ways to stimulate those young growing minds. You don't have to spend much either. You can buy legos, blocks or puzzles. Or simply your kid some play-dough or finger paint. If your child still likes to put things in there mouth, flour, sugar, food coloring makes a pretty decent and non-toxic paint. Grab a poster board from dollar tree and let them go to town. Not only will your child be occupied but activities like this help develop motor skills and have many intellectual benefits as well. Creative playing activities enhance "thinking" through planning, problem solving, and aids in the development cognitive skills. The most obvious benefit of creative play is CREATIVITY!!!
2.Go Outside
Living in New England the weather is so unpredictable! However, when its nice out; grab your laptop and text books and study while your child runs around. Bring a ball outside and kick it, throw it and have them retrieve it. [Sounds a little like, fetch lol sorry]. You'll be playing with them but still able to study.
3. Bedtime Story
If you have a course that requires a lot of reading then this will be very helpful to you. Read your text to your child for a bed-time story. When I was taking employment law, I would read the various cases to Alivia. Of course, it did not have any pictures which was actually beneficial. Picture this:black and white text, snuggled up close to mom, mono-tone voice. Shed fall asleep in no time. This was also a pretty cool way to introduce your child to words and sounds that they don't generally hear.
4. Study with Mommy
You heard it right! Study with your child. My major is accounting so I am always using a calculator, pencils and a lot of legal length paper. So what do I do? I give Alivia a calculator, a pencil and legal length paper. [Go figure lol] She bangs on her calculator, huffs and puffs like I do when I cant figure something out and she jots down her answers. Of course shes not really computing any calculations but she has a lot of fun pretending. I encourage her by reviewing her work [She really loves that], telling her shes doing an awesome job and thanking her for helping me.
5. Just say F*ck It
Yea I know, this post is suppose to be all about balancing motherhood and student life. The harsh reality is sometimes your homework will just have to take a back seat and/or your child will have to watch 2 hours of television. You will literally say "f*ck it" and skip the assignment or plop your child in-front of the TV. Its not what we want but its what just has to be done. I've missed assignments and Alivia has watched 6 Doc Mcstuffins episodes back to back. And guess what, everything is okay!!